Sunday, February 7, 2010

"Pregnancy-related death rate on the rise"

I thought this article from SFGate is very concerning.  Read it if you plan to have children or are a Californian.  *Shakes head*



Wednesday, February 3, 2010

Saturday, February 6, 2010

Friday, February 5, 2010

Pooh

I always loved Winnie the Pooh:

"Promise me you'll always remember: you're braver than you believe,
and stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think." - Christopher
Robin to Pooh

Sex

Sex sells. Case in point: Dress scandy and stand in front of knock off
designer sunglasses. Males have not only approached the kiosk, but
purchased the replica glasses. I have yet to see a female purchase
anything.

This is a case for...Fabio!

Sunday, January 31, 2010

Sushezi

I wanted a Sushezi and luckily got one for Christmas.  It is the coolest contraption ever.  One would look at the contraption and might possibly think that it is bollocks, but never fear.  This shit works!  It's as easy as the following:


1. Buying the ingredients (sushi rice, nori, veggies, fish, sauces, etc.).
2. Cooking the rice.
3. Chopping everything into small pieces.
4. Then you follow the direction or the video on the Sushezi website and fill the contraption with desired ingredients.  
5. Place the rice roll in nori and roll it using water to seal edges.
6. Keep in fridge for 10 minutes so the roll can soften.
7. Using a real sharp knife cut the roll into desired pieces (cleaning the knife with each cut).
8. Enjoy!

Friday, January 22, 2010

Love my horoscope

Jupiter is now in your relationship sector. If you think of all the dishevel you have been through in the last few years then this may be the lucky break you have been waiting for in relation to love. Have a good think on what you really want and what you are willing to do to get it. If you have been finding life ruling you lately then now is the time to take control back and assert your own power. This applies equally to those who have been ruling you and to yourself for allowing this to happen.

Totally applies.

Tuesday, January 19, 2010

Homework

Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.  -  Dr. Seuss

My previous post was a rushed thought.  The point is shit happens.  Sometime you have no control of the world.  We want to hold onto everything so tightly, but we simply cannot.  Something goes "wrong" in our eyes and we become angry, upset, sad, frustrated, furious, etc.  Instead of reacting we should use are brains and feelings to respond in that moment.  What can I do in this moment before I get upset?  Is there anything that I can do to change the path of this experience?  Whether the answer is yes or no, whether one has any small influence, one thing is certain.  The only thing a person can control is how they react and how they feel.  That's quite powerful. 


 Homework.



I think I need to learn to trust the universe.  If you try to hard to control something, you're bound to loose control.  Sometimes you have to relish in loosing control.
 
I know, I know.  Working on it.    

Monday, January 18, 2010

I was having a find day and one little thing had to ruin it.  Next thing you know I'm just so upset.  I have no one to make me feel better, or simply to talk to.  I feel so alone.  You feel the weight of the world at times like this. 

Sunday, January 17, 2010

Now this is positive!

My horoscope for the day:
Your partnership potential is looking good over the next several months as joyful Jupiter moves through your 7th House of Relationships. Although you may be disappointed if your expectations are unrealistic, it's more likely that someone special will enter your life and impact you in a positive manner. Whether you discover a mentor or a romance, exciting opportunities abound.

Thoughts


Blessed is he who expects nothing, for he shall never be disappointed. - Jonathan Swift

I've come to see that I get disappointed so easily in others because I have such high expectations for them.  Perhaps they can't live up to those expectations?  Perhaps it is not right to expect anything from others?  I also, however, have high expectations for myself and if I fail to meet my own self set designs I am also hard on myself.  This goes hand in hand. 

Then I think about a quote on my friends blog: "You should NEVER settle for less than you deserve. Because the moment you do, you get even less than what you settled for."  This is something to consider. 

So one shouldn't have expectations, but by the same rule set, how does one prevent settling?  I don't want to be a person that live a life of complacency.  If something isn't right, fix it.  Fix your mind, your heart, a negative pattern that has been established.  If that "something" can't be fixed I think that speaks magnitudes in and of itself.

On an entirely different note I read a great book called, "Love and Obstacles."  It's somewhat of a vulgar book about this man who desperately wants to fit in and find himself amidst a lack of positive role models or supervision.  It's told from a collection of short stories that chronicles this mans life that wasn't anything but ordinary.  While somewhat of a "loser" character, it's rather an interesting book and he is rather larger than life.  4 (bizarre) stars.  

I also started reading "A New Earth", which is supposed to be a self help book from the Oprah Book Club, but it blows and I'm deleting it from my kindle.  Yes, I got one for Christmas (aka birth of the boyfriend day).


"On to the next one..."
 



Saturday, January 2, 2010

Why are we so hard on ourselves, when the people who love us are so much more forgiving?
This year learn to be kind to yourself.  Learn to forgive yourself.   

Friday, January 1, 2010

Happy New Year

In the endless quest for New Years quotes I settle on three:
Cheers to a new year and another chance for us to get it right.  ~Oprah Winfrey

Be always at war with your vices, at peace with your neighbors, and let each new year find you a better man.  ~Benjamin Franklin

Drop the last year into the silent limbo of the past.  Let it go, for it was imperfect, and thank God that it can go.  ~Brooks Atkinson
I think each quote, in it's own right, offers something important.   

Thursday, December 31, 2009

Fresh Snow = Traffic Jams, Not Jamz

Various websites had different predictions in weather for today in the North Jersey / New York area.  Some said chance of snow.  Others said snow/sleet or "freezing rain."  All were 100% certain.  


I normally give myself an hour to get to work so I can pick up some cafe con crema y azucar.  Today I did nothing out of the ordinary.  On the way to work it started to snow.  It was very slippery and I saw one car spin out.  As I drove slowly around the car with my emergency blinkers on I thought for a second get off the freeway and use your GPS to take surface streets to work.  Then I looked at the freeway ahead, saw no one, and proceeded, slowly enough.  0.7 miles from my work the road came to a standstill.  The traffic was so bad that it took me 2 hours to move 0.2 miles.  Let me emphasize that.  It took me 2 hours to move 0.2 miles!  So I left at 7:30am and clocked in at 12:30pm.  


My advice is when it first starts snowing don't continue to drive 90mph+.  It's not safe and chances are you will cause massive traffic jams for everyone trying to get to work.

So in the end, it was a terrible car accident, not the snow, that made me late for work.  Well I guess the snow was the result, or reckless driving.  You decide.  Almost every major roadway in the area had accidents and was congested due to the "snow."  There were no traffic problems coming home and the bubby spoiled be with his delicious salads and homemade Rhode Island style CALAMARI!  I'm a lucky girl. 

Wednesday, December 30, 2009

"My Boyfriend Thought He Was a Porn Star"

I found this article from Marie Claire magazine to be pretty accurate.  Stop watching porn boys and get in touch with your senses (and ours).  
To be a sexual being is to break patterns, follow a pleasurable tangent, and use every nerve, not just the erogenous ones.
No wonder girls fake orgasms!  But this opens a whole new can of worms that I don't have the time nor energy to address.

Read the article here: My Boyfriend Thought He Was a Porn Star

Saturday, December 26, 2009

LATISSE

I was given a few bottles of Latisse, which is a product that is FDA approved to help eyelashes grow longer and thicker, to help make my own lashes grow.  The product claims that growth can be seen in 8 weeks with full results seen in 10-12 weeks of nightly use.  I'm one of those people that has to try everything and believe it or not I feel like I already see a difference. And that is seen with 2 weeks of use and nights of forgetting to apply the product.  If you don't believe me, check this picture out:

The person in this picture uses Lumigan, aka generic Latisse, in one eye (viewers right) to help lower her eye pressure since she has glaucoma.  If you can see in the picture, the eyelashes on the right side are much longer than those pictured on the left.  Once upon a time before she had surgery in her left eye (viewers right), she applied Lumigan in that eye, and those eyelashes were just as long.  The proof is in use and in the picture!

I will continue to chronicle my journey with Latisse.  Interesting to note that if Latisse enters your eye it can result in the following side effects: 
  • Itching and redness, which are supposed to subside with taking breaks of the treatment and continued use.  
  • Possible darkening of the eyelid, especially in dark skinned people.  This, however, may be reversible.  
  • Possible darkening of the iris.  This most likely will be permanent.  
  • Extra hair growth around the eyes or skin that Latisse comes in contact with.  Suggestion: Apply as directed.  

Friday, December 25, 2009

Christmas Eve Dinner

The boyfriend traditionally does not eat meat on Christmas Eve.  Never wanting to be one to break tradition of any sort (unless it has direct harm to myself or my feelings), I wanted to make a meal that would carry on this no meat policy.  The solution was an array of veggie and seafood appetizers, and lots of them.  Unfortunately I did not get good pictures because it was dark and I used an iPhone, but I will try and post better pics at a later time.  

Here is my mother's two dishes.  She made a salmon dip spread and canelli beans in endive.  I will get her recipe upon request.  

I made marinated asparagus, because frankly you need your greens.  I blanch the asparagus in boiling water until they turn bright green (about 3-5 minutes).  Then I cover then in drizzled olive oil, balsamic, salt and pepper to taste, and top it off with shaved parmesan-reggiano cheese.  It is delicious and really lives up asparagus.


This is a picture of Seared Scallops with Garlic Parsley Butter (click here for recipe) was personally my favorite dish of the evening.  It was very easy to make and was definitely 5 stars worthy.  It was categorized as an appetizer, but despite getting huge succulent scallops, this easily could have been an elegant entree.  And the yukon gold potato puree that accompanies it is literally easy, delicious mashed potatoes.  

This is a picture of all the other dishes we ate.  

  • Sizzling Sherry Shrimp with Garlic - Very easy to make.  Use some crusty bread to soup up the oil and garlic sauce.  4/5 stars (Click here for recipe)
  • Absolutely Amazing Ahi - An OMG it was amazing!  We purchased sushi grade ahi and despite forgetting the cucumbers, this recipe was out of this world! 5/5 stars. If others didn't see you making this dish, they would think it was purchased at a fancy Japanese restaurant.  (Click here for recipe) 
  • Jalapeno Popper Wontons - My poppers definitely did not come out like the picture in the recipe, but they were delicious and the dad could not get enough of them.  Neither could I.  This was my first time deep frying and I used an electric fry pan.  Easiest dish of the night and 4/5 stars alone 4.5/5 with the sweet chili dipping sauce.  (Click here for recipe)

Did you really think I wouldn't make a dessert?  Puhlease.  I made the Malt Shop Ice Cream Pie on the 23rd and put the finishing touches together on Christmas Eve.  This was to ensure that the ice cream pie would in fact become a solid entity.  And oh boy did it.  Easier than I thought and everyone had seconds.  (Click here for recipe)  


The boyfriend stated it was the best Christmas Eve meal he has ever had.  Anything for the birthday boy!  

Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Great game, even better book - Recommendations

My go to game is Apples to Apples.  It's a great game for kids and adults alike, although I find it more fun when the adults play this one.   However there is a new kid in town taking Apples to Apples spotlight and that game is Smart Ass.  It is the self proclaimed "ultimate trivia game" for the inpatient and overanxious.  You think you know who, what, or where the answer is as clues are read out?  Well, then by all means yell it out.  But if you get it wrong, forfeit any other chances to guess the answer.  It truly is a fun game testing how much you know and teaching you along the way.  


I just finished The Weight of Silence by Heather Gudenkauf and it is one of the best books I have read to this day.  The short preview of the book is about two girls who go missing.  Both are best friends.  One talks, the other is a selective mute.  Did they go together or separate?  Why did they leave?  If they didn't run off into the forest to play, then who took them?  Each chapter is told from each of the main characters point of the view.  Great character development and storyline.  READ IT!    

Sunday, December 20, 2009

Anthony Bourdain's Mushroom Soup

Anthony Bourdain's mushroom soup from his Les Halles Cookbook is something I definitely have to rave about.  It's easy to prepare,  even easier to make, and tastes 5 star worthy.  The most grueling chore of this soup is slicing the onions. 

Even though Anthony Bourdain is food god, I use a suggestion from Kalyn's Kitchen and add dried mushrooms, reconstituted in water.  My personal choice is chanterelles, but since mushrooms can get expensive go with what you can afford.  (I buy about 1 oz. or more depending on the audience.)

So if you are going to try making Bourdain's delicious soup I highly recommend following everything he says, but reconstituting the mushrooms first and then throwing the dried mushrooms in with the chicken stock.  I've had the soup both ways, and the later is even more superb, if you can imagine that.  Thank you Kalyn!  And don't forget lot's of salt and pepper.  You need the salt to balance the sweetness of the sherry.  (And I'm a salt-a-phobe.)

Kalyn's Kitchen Double Mushroom Soup (Inspired by Bourdain) 

Saturday, December 5, 2009

Elephant birth

This video is graphic, but it is one of the most amazing things I have ever seen.  An elephant gives birth to her baby and then revives the infant elephant until it takes it's first breath, etc.  Instinct is incredible.  Click here to watch.